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How to Make Decisions You Won't Regret

April 22, 20266 min read
How to Make Decisions You Won't Regret

Most advice on decision-making focuses on outcomes: make the right choice and things will go well. This is almost exactly backwards. Good decisions don't guarantee good outcomes — they improve the probability of good outcomes, which is not the same thing. And bad outcomes don't mean the decision was wrong. Understanding this distinction is the foundation of clear thinking about choices.

Process over outcome

A poker player who goes all-in with pocket aces and loses to a lucky river card made a correct decision that produced a bad outcome. A driver who runs a red light and arrives safely made a bad decision that produced a fine outcome. Judging decisions by outcomes — "resulting," as Annie Duke calls it — is one of the most common reasoning errors people make.

The implication: evaluate your decisions by the quality of your process, not by what happened. Did you consider the relevant information? Did you account for your own biases? Did you think carefully about what you didn't know? A good process, applied consistently, produces better outcomes over time — even though any individual decision can go badly through bad luck.

The problems with our natural decision-making

Loss aversion

Kahneman and Tversky's prospect theory demonstrated that losses feel roughly twice as powerful as equivalent gains. This means we systematically avoid risks that we should take and take risks to avoid losses that we shouldn't. The pain of losing £100 is felt more intensely than the pleasure of gaining £100 — which is irrational if the monetary value is identical.

Present bias

We consistently overweight immediate costs and benefits relative to future ones. This is why we eat the dessert, skip the exercise, and procrastinate on the important work. Future consequences are real but feel abstract; present consequences are immediate and vivid.

The planning fallacy

We systematically underestimate how long things will take and how much they will cost — while overestimating how much we'll accomplish. The solution, developed by Daniel Kahneman, is the "outside view": instead of building a plan from scratch, look at how long similar projects have actually taken in the past and use that as your baseline.

Strategies that help

Pre-mortem

Before making a significant decision, imagine that it's one year in the future and the decision has failed. Now ask: what went wrong? This exercise — developed by Gary Klein — surfaces risks that optimism bias would otherwise suppress, because it gives people permission to be pessimistic.

Consider the opposite

Actively consider the case for the option you're not leaning toward. What are its best arguments? What would a thoughtful advocate for that option say? This combats confirmation bias by forcing engagement with disconfirming evidence.

The 10/10/10 rule: When facing a difficult decision, ask: how will I feel about this choice in 10 minutes? In 10 months? In 10 years? This simple exercise interrupts present bias and connects the decision to your longer-term values and goals.